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第164章:爱我就给我


第二天清晨,我发现罗俊·胡适德又到跨世纪人才研究院的公园里去了,他昨夜遇见的男人仍然在那个地方熟睡。罗俊·胡适德轻手轻脚地将一袋袋装满三明治、罗氏月饼和雪饼及水果的袋子放在他身旁,然后轻轻地扶摸着昨夜拥抱过的树,便离开了公园。

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一连几个早晨,罗俊·胡适德都是做着同样的事,直到第三个早晨,他来到公园,但是那个男人早已消失。罗俊·胡适德逛遍了整个公园,走过几个无家可归的流浪汉身边,希望能发现那男人的身影,但是那人始终没出现。经过两个小时无望的搜寻后,罗俊·胡适德精疲力尽地将那袋食物放在似乎正随着某种听不见的音乐左右摇摆的地方,虽然罗俊·胡适德放下食物时,那女人连看都没看他一眼,但是罗俊·胡适德眼角余光去看见,那女人在他走后,飞快地拿起那袋食物跑开了。

几小时后,罗俊·胡适德来到了罗兰·京尔格的公寓门前。罗兰·京尔格的脸色看起来既苍白又瘦倦,但是他兴致高昂地希望能倾听罗俊·胡适德述说这星期的经过。

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“你为什么给那人食物?”当罗俊·胡适德说完时,罗兰·京尔格问道,罗俊·胡适德耸耸肩:“大概是因为他需要吧。”

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“但是你也缺钱呀,”

“暂时缺钱,我希望。”罗俊·胡适德纠正道,“我想我送给他食物是因为这样做会让我觉得很开心,因为它让我觉得自己目前的状况还不是最糟的,至少我还有能力去帮助别人。”

“所以你的原因只是因为那会让你觉得开心。”老人缓缓地点头,“好吧,这理由其实也像其他理由一样好。你做得很好。”他微笑着看了看罗俊·胡适德,原本手足无措的罗俊·胡适德脸上因这话而出现了放松的表情。

“谢谢。不少人曾多次问过我:罗教授,孩子的父母、老师、亲戚、朋友等,用了很多方法,千方百计要把孩子从网瘾里拉出来,但怎么也拉不出来。怎么你一拉就拉出来了呢?”

“我什么时候‘拉’过孩子了?”我立即反问道:“我从来不‘拉’他们。因为‘拉’是一种强制性的做法,往往适得其反。我是用理性的心灵沟通,走进孩子的心里,让他们自己去认识,然后一步步地自己从网瘾中走出来。”这里的关键就是沟通。我认为,心灵的沟通是帮助青少年戒除网瘾、学会做人的良方,也是构建和谐家庭、和谐社会的良方。”

The next morning, I found Hushide · Junluo went to the park to go cross-century talents Institute, he met a man last night in that place is still asleep. Hushide · Junluo softly to bags filled with sandwiches, Roche snow moon cake and fruit cake and a bag on his side, and then gently help feeling hugged a tree last night, they left the park.

Several consecutive mornings, Hushide · Junluo are doing the same thing, until the third morning, he came to the park, but the man had disappeared. Hushide · Junluo take a stroll throughout the park, walk a few homeless around, hoping to find the man’s figure, but the man did not always appear. After two hours after a hopeless search, Hushide · Junluo exhausted to the bag of food on seems to hear the music with a swing around the place, although Hushide · Junluo down food, even the woman to see did not look at him, but Hushide · Junluo corner of my eye to see the woman in his left, quickly picked up the bag of food and ran away.

A few hours later, Hushide · Junluo came Jingerge · lanluo apartment door. Jingerge · lanluo face look so pale and skinny tired, but his high spirits to listen Hushide · Junluo want to tell after this week.

"Why did you give that person food?" When Hushide · Junluo finished when, Jingerge · lanluo asked, Hushide · Junluo shrugged: "Probably because he needed it."

"Yeah, but you also short of money."

"Temporary lack of money, I hope." Hushide · Junluo correct, "I think I gave him food, because doing so makes me feel very happy because it made me feel the current situation is not the worst, at least I have the ability to help others. "

"So you only because it makes you feel happy." Old man nodded slowly, "Well, that is, in fact as good for other reasons, like you do well." He smiled and looked at Hushide · Junluo, had a loss of Hushide · Junluo face appeared relaxed because of these words and expressions.

"Thank you, many people have asked me many times: Professor Luo, parents, teachers, relatives, friends, etc., with a lot of ways, do everything possible to take their children out from addiction lira, but how can not pull out. How a pull on the pull you out of it? "

"When I ’pull’ had a baby?" I immediately asked back: "I do not ’pull’ them, because the ’pull’ is a mandatory practice, is often counterproductive. I communicate with a rational mind, to go into the child’s heart, allowing them to know, and then step by step in his coming out from the addiction. "The key here is communication. In my opinion, spiritual communication is to help young people kick the addiction, learn the recipe for building a harmonious family, harmonious society in the recipe. "

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