“就这样了,我一定要完成!”咬了咬一阵子的牙之后,罗凯文说,“我已经想不出来还有什么了。”
“很好。”罗兰·京尔格同意道。突然间一阵猛烈的咳嗽袭向他,罗凯文连忙扶他坐起来,小心地拍着他的背,对他的虚弱感到害怕。当咳嗽过去后,罗凯文递给罗兰·京尔格一杯水,罗兰·京尔格把水喝光,带着微笑将空杯交回到罗凯文手上。
“这真是天底下最好的事了。”他宣称,“我们说到哪儿了?噢,对了,我想到了,现在我要你告诉我你写下的第一个目标。你说:‘我是什么’,回答要充满活力与热情。”
“好。”罗凯文半信半疑地说,“我品人。”
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“热情点!”
“我是人!”
“好多了!当你这样说的时候,你心里有什么感觉?”
“很好。”罗凯文的表情相当困惑,但是罗兰·京尔格却高高兴兴地点着头。
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“现在下一个”他说。
“我是男人!”
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“心里感觉很好?”
罗凯文点了点头。
“我是罗凯文!”
“心里感觉好吗?”
“棒极了!”
“继续”
“得到的要知道感恩,失去的要能够无悔无怨,人生就会永存打拼的动力。”罗凯文说。
“因为情绪的波动是客观存在的事儿,没有哪一位成功者没有低潮,也没有哪一个人永无快乐的时光。”罗兰·京尔格回答道。
“是的,每个人的情绪都是高高低低的,关键是不能让情绪低落的时间太久,因为,心情会影响事情。您的心情就是您的脸色,而您的脸色就是您的世界。”罗凯文肯定了他的观点。
“人们心情不好往往是因为注意到不好的而不是好的。成功者永远只关注好的,因此他们有好的心情去改善尚不够好的东西。”罗兰·京尔格紧接着说。
“是呀,罗兰·京尔格我也知道:积极的人像太阳,照到哪里哪里亮;消极的人像月亮,初一十五不一样。虽属笑谈,却道出了真理。积极的人永远面向光明,他把阴影抛弃脑后;消极的人常常背向光明,因而满眼阴霾,甚至痛不欲生。”
到了第六项时,罗凯文终于了解为什么罗兰·京尔格要问他心里的感觉如何了。
“是的,我很富有!嗯,我该学会管理自己的情绪了,情绪管理是生存的智慧,每个人都有权利选择自己如何看待事情,正面的亦或是负面的。”
“感觉如何?为什么要嗯一声,”
“因为我不确定。”罗凯文说,声音和表情一样困惑。
“再说一遍!”
“我很富有!世界在我心中,境由心生,乐观的人始终看到机会和快乐,有激情的人做任何事都充满力量和热情。把脸朝向太阳,你将看不到黑暗;把情绪调到巅峰,你将走近成功。”
“再一次,再一次,再一次说,‘我很富有!’。”说了十次之后,罗凯文才觉得心里有舒服的感觉。
“很诧异。”他说。
“有时候你的心需要时间去接受一些事,或者接受某些人。”罗兰·京尔格对他说,“而很显然地,你对目前的经济状况有很强烈的追求意识,所以你需要多重复几次‘我很富有’,你的心灵才不会反对它。好了,现在下一个是什么?”
"So, I have to complete!" Bit her teeth after a while, Luo kai Wen said, "I have no idea what the."
"Very well." Jingerge · lanluo agreed. Suddenly a gust of cough headed toward him, Luo Kai wen help him sit up quickly, carefully patting his back, afraid of his weakness. When the cough is over, Luo Kai wen handed Jingerge · lanluo a glass of water, Jingerge · lanluo to drink light, with a smile cross the empty cup back to Luo Kaiwen hands.
"This is really the best thing under the sun." He declared, "Where did we say? Oh, yes, I think, and now I want you to tell me that you wrote the first goal, you said: ’I What is’ the answer to be full of vitality and enthusiasm. "
"Good." Luo Kai wen dubious to say, "my goods, people."
"Passion point!"
"I am a man!"
"Much better! When you say when your heart feel?"
"Good." Luo Kai wen face considerable confusion, but Jingerge · lanluo but happily nodded.
"Now the next one," he said.
"I am a man!"
"My heart feel good?"
Luo Kai wen nodded.
"I am Luo Kai wen!"
"My heart feel good?"
"Great!"
"Continue"
"Get to know Thanksgiving, lost no regrets to be able to complain, life will be forever hard power." Luo kai Wen said.
"Because sentiment is an objective thing, no one winner no low, no single individual will never be a happy time." Jingerge · lanluo replied.
"Yes, everyone’s emotions are high and low, the key is not so depressed for too long, because the mood will affect things. You feel is your face and your face is your world. "Luo Kai wen sure his point of view.
"People are often a bad mood because of a bad note, not good. Winners always only concerned with good, so they have a good mood is still not good enough to improve things." Jingerge · lanluo immediately said.
"Yes, Jingerge · lanluo I know: a positive portrait sun, where it shines bright; negative portrait Moon, who started 15 different. Stage a joke, it tells the truth. Active people will never face the light He abandoned the shadows behind; negative people often back-light, which blows the haze, and even deep sorrow. "
To the sixth, the Luo Kai wen finally understand why Jingerge · lanluo to ask him how it feels to the heart.
"Yes, I am rich! Ah, I learn to manage their emotions, and emotional management is the wisdom of life, everyone has the right to choose how they see things, have a positive or negative."
"How does it feel? Why ah soon,"
"Because I’m not sure." Luo kai Wen said, his voice and facial expressions as confused.
"Again!"
"I am rich! The world in my mind, throughout the heart, optimists always see an opportunity and happy, passionate people to do anything full of energy and enthusiasm. My face toward the sun, you will not see the dark; transferred to the emotional peak, you will be approached successfully. "
"Once again, once again, once again said, ’I am rich!’." Said a dozen times, Luo Kai wen just feel a little discomfort there.
"I am surprised." He said.
"Sometimes your heart needs time to accept something, or to accept some of the people." Jingerge · lanluo said to him, "and obviously, the current economic situation you have a very strong sense of the pursuit, so you need more Repeat several times ’I am rich’, your mind will not oppose it. Well, now what next? "
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