斯米尔诺娃自言自语地念记着，似乎在盼望朋友：如果暂时没有时间细细品味生活，也请当有时间的时候将自己的心沉淀下来，用心的分析成功者的技巧。好的心情也许真的不多了……
“单身，有时不一定是贵族。单身也许会比较自由，但自由也有一个同义词，叫作寂寞。因为人不是什麽时候都喜欢一个人独处的；有时好东西需要跟人分享，有时候难过需要人安慰。单身贵族产生的原因，是因为经济上的独立、人格上的独立以及感情上的独立。独立是什麽？独立是需要而不依赖，一个独立的人需要异性，而不依赖异性。”尤勒尔诺夫边往窗外望边说着。
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如果，你真的是想做一位有情之人，就请之前做上好朋友。若成为你的朋友之後，出现在你的生活里，才有可能认识你、了解你、知道你的长处，而对你产生某些好感，进一步发展感情，变成情人、对象。世界上的颜色并非只有白色和黑色，黑与白之间还有很漫长的灰色地带。只要多相处，便能发现对方的优点、产生好感，这才是发展感情的自然过程。
威廉呀，或者可以说我们之间的感情是不切实际的，我们需要的不是这种不切实际而虚幻的感情。有人形容跟异性交往，就好像在海边捡石头，大家都会捡喜欢的那一颗。一旦捡到一颗你最喜欢的石头，便把它带回家去，好好对待它，因为那是你唯一的石头。而且要记住，从此後不要再到海边去。而且要永远相信，我已经找到最大、最美、最适合我的那一颗。平似乎发现彼此沉默不语的尴尬，便随意答道：“跟异性交往最重要的不是他有多好，而是他对你有多好。一个人如果条件很好，有一百分，可是这一百分之中，他只给你三四十分，或一二十分；相反地，另一个人也许只有七八十分，可是他却是全心全意的对待你，那你应该选择那一个？其实，每一个人的条件都是一样的。不管你有多好，都还有人比你更好。”
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是的，我虽然做不到一个“最好的人”，可是你却做得到一个“对对方最好的人”。每一个男孩子都可以说：“虽然我不是世界上最好的男人，但我是世界上对你最好的男人”。反过来女孩子也是一样，这是每一个人都做得到的。感情最重要的是在於他对你的好，而不是他自己有多好。
也记得爱莲娜曾对我们说过，如果有一个人本身已经很好了，对你又是真心真意，真心爱你，那麽你真的可以把一生托付给他。现在女性考虑婚姻的唯一条件，应该就是你爱不爱他，他爱不爱你，是不是真心真意对你，跟他在一起会不会有压力，会不会快乐，而非他有什麽！人间的真爱是很难得的。在人的一生中，很难找到一个你真正爱，真正可以跟他过一辈子的人。如果你怯於表达，或害怕会有什麽事，错失一辈子可能只有一次的真爱，那就太可惜了，所以一定要采取主动，把心里的话说出来。
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罗德尼娜，也扎伊采夫坦率过：如果一个男孩子，因为女孩子对他采取主动而看不起她，那麽这个男孩子不是男生，而是畜生。更何况，幸福比面子重要，如果牺牲一时的面子可以换得一生的幸福，是非常值得的，勇敢把心里的话说出来，不要隐藏自己的真心。千万别说缘份未到，其实缘份到处都有，但却是稍纵即逝，如果“缘”不及时把握，那就连“份”也没有了。大多数的女性对感情是偏重於精神，男性则偏於物质。男孩子除了对女孩子殷勤体贴外，也要学会对女孩子负责任，要将对天下所有女孩子的殷勤体贴，全部用来对一个女孩子。另外，威廉并不能讨女孩欢心，所以通常要学习对女孩子甜言蜜语，多说好话。男人，为性而爱；女人，为爱而性。一个维持起来轻松、愉快的感情容易长久！一个维持起来艰难而痛苦的感情不易长久，这时後就应该有所选择。我们都是威廉，
要的是平凡而幸福并且快乐的爱情。对所有的感情而言，过程远比结果重要。为什麽？因为所有的感情都是没有结果的。什麽是结果？结婚吗？结婚之後就过着幸福快乐的日子吗？可见我们不以感情的结果来评断它的价值感情，也不以时间的长短来论定它的价值。
我对感情而言，凡是发生过的都存在，凡是存在过的都有价值。世界上的感情每一段、每一分、每一秒都是值得珍惜的。婚姻是人生里最大的一场赌局。在这无限长的时间里，我们还要互相呈现最丑陋的一面给对方看。婚姻和恋爱不同的是：恋爱可以花二个小时打扮自己，精神奕奕的向对方献殷勤、体贴，轻松完成任务。可是婚姻就无法随时维持高亢的状态。所以，婚姻是一场大赌注，需有千万种的准备、周详的计划、十足的信心，然後再去押它一把，即使是这样都还有可能输掉。因此如果在赌之前，就知道自己不是心甘情愿、不是很爱他、并不想跟他过一辈子，那麽这一场赌注注定是要输的。如果真的是这样，千万不要为了爱情之外的任何一个理由结婚。感情的可贵不在於可从对方获得什麽，一方面是一种被依赖、被需要的感觉。有人依赖我，需要我，我会得到满足。面对感情，我们所要采取的就是三不政策：第一是不急：不要急着结婚。结婚虽然是很美好的事，但是不要着急，该是你的始终就是你的，若不是你的，无论怎么强求都无可奈何。第二是不怕：不要害怕付出。彼此必需一辈子努力，才能把感情维持好。你不可能“得到”一个美好的感情，你只能找到一个你心爱的人，来共同经营、造就、完成一段美好的感情。如果你没决心做好男人，那你就得不到好女人。世界上没有一个坏男人会有一个好女人，坏男人只会有可怜的女人；同样的，也没有一个坏女人会有一个好男人。何况感情中还有一个跟我们共同努力、想把它做好的人。这个合夥事业成功的机会是很大的，关键就在於你是否愿意努力、付出而已。第三是不要放弃。当你受了打击、挫折、伤害，当你感到灰心、失望时，有一个人无条件的、永远站在你这一边，支持你、鼓励你、安慰你，让你重新站起来面对这个世界。这个力量，是再亲的父母不能给我们的，是再要好的朋友也不能给我们的，只有在人生的旅程中所找到的心爱的伴侣，才能够给我们。其实爱情是人生唯一的、真正珍贵的；也是唯一的、真正值得追求的东西。只要你有一个心爱的人，你就有了原动力，你就能面对全世界，也才有可能实现更大的梦想。
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Smirnova Remember himself to read, it seems that in looking forward to a friend: If you do not have time to savor life, and also the time when the hearts of their precipitation down, hard analysis of successful techniques. Perhaps a good mood really running out ... ...
"Single, and sometimes may not be the aristocracy. Singletons may be more freedom, but freedom also has a synonym called loneliness. Because when people are not like one person alone; sometimes good things need to share with other people, sometimes saddened by the need to human comfort. the causes of single people because of economic independence, personal independence and emotional independence. What is independence? independence need not rely on an independent person who needs the opposite sex, rather than rely on the opposite sex. "Jules looked out the window while Mikhail, said edge.
If you really want to love a person, please makes friends before.If it be your friend after the appear in your life, will it be possible to know you, understand you, know your strengths, and have some of your good opinion, the further development of feelings into love, the object. The color of the world, not just white and black, among black and white there is still a long gray areas. To get along as long as more can be found in each other’s advantages, have a good impression, this is the natural process of emotional development.
William it, or can be said that the feelings between us is not realistic, we need not the feelings of unrealistic and illusory. Some people have described the contacts with the opposite sex, just like the stones found at the seaside, we will then pick a favorite. Once you find a favorite stone, put it home to, well deal with it, because it is the only stone you. But also to keep in goes to stop mind that since then he to the sea. But never believe that I have found the largest, most beautiful, the most suitable one that I am. Ping seems to find each other embarrassing silence, he replied at random: “the most important contacts with the opposite sex is not how well he, but how good he is you. A person if the conditions are good, there are more points, but this one per cent, he30-40only give you points, or twenty minutes; On the other hand, another person may only70-80points,but he is half-hearted treatment of you, then you should choose one? In fact, every a person’s condition is the same.
No matter how good you are also better than you. "
Yes, although I can not do a "best person", but do you have a "the best person on the other side." Every boy can be said: "Although I am not the world’s best men, but I was the world’s best men for you." In turn, is the same girl, this is everyone able to do so. The feelings of the most important thing is that he’s good for you, rather than how good his own.
Elaine has also remember we said that if there is a good in itself, and for you really, really love you, then you really can be entrusted to him his life. Marriage for women is now considered the only condition is that you should love him, and he love you, is not really sincere to you, with him will be a lot of pressure, will not be happy, not even his you! The world of true love is hard to come by. In human life, it is difficult to find a love you really and truly can be with him all his life people have. If you Afraid of expression, or afraid of what would have missed a lifetime of love may be only once, then pity, so we must take the initiative, saying the heart out.
German Nina, Zaitsev also been frank: if a boy, because girls take the initiative to him and look down on her, and then the boys rather than men, but beasts. Moreover, the well-being than face an important, if at the expense of the face can be in exchange for the happiness of life is very worthwhile, brave words from the heart, do not hide their true. Not to mention tens of millions of fate is yet to come, in fact, everywhere fate, but it is fleeting, if the "fate" is not in time to grasp, that even the "copies" is gone. Most of the women is the emphasis on the spirit of affection, while men tend to the material. In addition to the girls the boys warm and considerate, but also learn to have a responsible girls to all girls in the world will be gracious and considerate, all used to a girl. In addition, does not discuss William favor of girls, so girls usually have to learn to talk, say good words. Men, for sex and love; woman, for love and sex. With an easy to maintain, easy to long-term feelings of pleasure! Up a difficult and painful to maintain the feeling of not last long, after this time should have a choice. We are William,
To the ordinary and well-being and happiness of love. The feelings of all concerned, the results of the process far more important. Why? Because all the feelings are not the results. What is the result? Get married? After getting married on live happily ever after right? That said, we are not the result of the feelings to judge the feelings of its value, nor the length of time to set its value on.
In terms of my feelings, whatever happened there, all have the value existed. The feelings of the world, every paragraph, every second is worth cherishing. Marriage is a life’s biggest gamble. In this infinite time, we have shown each other the most ugly side to the other side to see. Different marriage and love is: love can spend two hours dressing up themselves, to the stimulus afforded by the other side of the gallant, considerate and easy task. But marriage will not be able at any time to maintain the status resounding. Therefore, marriage is a big bet is that there is a 10 million kinds of preparation of detailed plans, full of confidence, and then charge it a go, even this is still likely to lose. Therefore, if before the game, I know that they are not willing, not love him, he does not want to have a lifetime, it is a gamble doomed to lose. If this is the case, should not to love any one of the reasons other than marriage. Does not lie in the value of feelings from what the other side, on the one hand, of a reliance on feeling of being needed. Some people rely on me, need me, I will be satisfied. The face of the feelings we have to be taken is the three-no policy: The first one is not anxious: Do not hurry to get married. Although marriage is a beautiful thing, but do not worry, it is always you that you, if it were not for you, no matter how reluctantly forced all. The second is not afraid of: Do not be afraid to pay. Efforts necessary to each other all their lives, in order to maintain the good feelings. You can not "get" a good feeling, you can only find a person you love, to co-operate to create, to complete a period of good feelings. If you do not resolve to do a good job man, you will not get a good woman. The world is not a bad man would be a good women, bad men will only have the poor woman; Similarly, there is not a single woman would be a good man bad. Moreover, there is a feeling in the joint efforts with us, those who want to do a good job. The cause of this partnership is a great chance of success, and the key is are you willing to pay it. The third is not to give up. When you blow by, frustration, hurt, when you feel disheartened, disappointed when a person unconditionally, always on your side to support you, encourage you, comfort you,
Allow you to stand up and face the world. This force is no longer pro-parents can not give us is no longer good friends do not give us only the journey of life found in the beloved partner, will be able to give us. In fact, love is life’s only truly valuable; the only real thing worth pursuing. As long as you have a loved one, you will have a driving force, you will be able to face the world, nor will it be possible to achieve even greater dream.
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