时过境迁、岁月不绕人，转眼间大伙们都变了样，也都成了家。
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连续有二十多年，我们七个人总是因为这样或那样的原因在门楼（庙会）前集合，若某一天缺席一至两人，而缺席的人一定得叫别人来替代，但始终贯穿缺席的人物就是排行老四罗薇，连续十年没来参加，大家多少都有些怨言和扫兴——仿佛是对一种承诺的失约。
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在1989年，我们开始不约而同，到了后又争先恐后要参加门楼（庙会）那一年是鸡年？据父母们说是个好年来的，农村人喜欢图个如意，于是在得到父母们的支持下，我们七个人便在阴历七月十四日(七夕节)组成一字排。那一年热闹非凡，组成的门楼（庙会）特别多。
可能是年龄太小了，在门楼（庙会）这天便体现出来了——不能自理。所以有的母亲就主动过来帮忙。直至下来几年我们渐渐长大，才越来越少母亲们的帮助。
每年吃完门楼（庙会）的晚上，都会一起去买零食看电影——电影是村里放给庙主看的，会连续播放几天。
那时天总是那么蓝，水总是那么清。不管风吹浪打，我们仿佛成了兄弟手足般的粘在一起玩耍。
约定了很长一段时间，中午放学一回家吃完饭就得马上去学校玩，玩七人分为两组训练跆拳道，看哪一组跆拳道厉害些。哇！各有奇招，打得你死我活的，呼喊得真爽！
坚持了很长一段时间，每逢初一十五的晚饭后，一起去给神才明上香，然后在回家的路上一起去吃汤面。
每到星期天，就会爬过两座山去虎山庵拜神，时而一起到香山走走。因为大家喜欢在庵里吃饭，都说那里的饭菜香，母亲们迷信说是神才明下了佐料，才会那么好吃的，那时我们也都相信了，所以每次要去之前，母亲们都会交待我们带点米和青菜。虎山庵偏僻，买点东西都不方便，平日大多靠人们去拜神时顺便带点去。
还有很多很多的有趣事儿，一起打球，一起训练，一起钓鱼，一起游泳……
七个人一起玩过的游戏举不胜举，那时候罗薇只懂得贪玩，懂得快乐，别的几乎都抛在脑后，太过单纯了。一个暑假下来都嫌假期太短了，脑袋里只收获跆拳道是一项运用手足技术，重在足技进行博击格斗的体育项目。所谓跆拳道，跆（TAE），意思是以脚踢、摔撞；拳（KWON）是以拳头打击；道（DO）是一种艺术方法。主要包括品势（套路），博击（实战竞技与格斗），功力检测三部分，还包括擒拿、格斗、自卫术、基本功等技艺。练习跆拳道需要活动全身的肌肉和关节。因此，它是一项全面的运动。让我们感觉时间太快，暑假很短。有时玩得太开心一到吃饭时间，就恨人生下来为什么要吃饭。
人们常说：“快乐的时光总是过得飞快。”可是那时的我们一点都不觉得，因为每一天的时间都过得非常充实，倘若有谁有时觉得无聊或空虚，只要去找一下其他伙伴就很快热闹起来。
时间总是那么的残酷无情的，不管你感到是快或慢，美好的时光总是会过去的。
我们渐渐长大了，有的搬了新家，加长了距离感，大家也开始结交新友，开阔视野。印象中，自我第一个上了初中后大家便没有在一起玩了，时间一长仿佛成了普通朋友。
后来，有的继续读中学、大学、研究生等书，有的读完初中或初中半途辍学就参加社会劳动了，大家很少见到面和没联系，便更加深了疏远感。
到了近几年，隐约能感受到在庙会这一天，大家都很想办法拉近彼此的心灵，但是不管是谁在下怎样的努力都弥补不了。若大家一提起罗薇的缺席，每个人心头上总是会滋生闷气，欲语还休，有时只能摇头叹气。
今年是牛年，不知是听谁道听途说，说罗薇会来参加庙会。一听说，大家都面露喜悦之状，但又是持怀疑的态度，因为谁都没联系得上罗薇。而老大罗徳尼娜说初几就要去深圳，庙会那天不一定会来。看来今年即使罗薇来也要有人缺席了，总是给人留下那么一点遗憾。
到了庙会这一天，我们几个在老七罗素家门口等人，罗素却意外的出现了。有的说罗薇已经在他亲戚家了，还带着结婚不久的老婆回来，我们等了好一会儿，总不见人影，就把这事撇在背后，七个人先去打球，玩几下再打算去市场买菜。
罗薇，终于出现了，在我们买完菜回来出现的，我晚回来一点，没见到他老婆。十年之久了，还能认得彼此，应该是他的变化最大，头发掉了很多，额头就像人们说的“聪明绝顶”，光秃秃的，显得苍老很多。
这下大家可乐坏了，虽然没说出来，从照的相片里看便知，个个春风满面，精神抖擞，嘴唇一直都没合上，做起事来特别来劲，就连我们八人里面堪称是“懒惰之王”的老二罗京在今天都争着干活。
在聚餐时，陆陆续续都有人提醒一两句关于罗薇以后一定要回来参加的话，他对这事，也没正面回答。显然，大家内心肯定不好受。
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每年的这一天，好比凝聚着我们曾经拥有的所有快乐之事的纪念日，而不管在今天过得快乐与否，一旦散席，在生活面前，大家都得以另一种心境去面对生活，也带着“职业问题”所带来的小小遗憾潜伏在我们的生活里。
小时的友情应该是不带色彩的，很单纯、很单纯的，以至现在我们七人都不像从前那样哥们。我很怀念从前，直到现在都会像牛一样反刍着那恒久不退的味道，它将成为我们每个人心中的至宝一样，永远珍藏在心底的最深处。
Overtaken by events, time is not around the people, blink of an eye and everyone were all kind of changed, but also have become home.
There are 20 consecutive years, the seven of us always because of this reason or another, at the gate (temple) before the collection, if the absence of one or two a day, while the absence of people must have asked someone else to replace, but always through the absence of the characters is the fourth eldest among the Luo Wei, did not come to participate in the past ten years, we have some of the number of complaints, and unhappiness - as if a commitment is missed appointments.
In 1989, we began spontaneously, then rushed to attend to the gate (temple) year is the Year of the Rooster? According to the parents say is a good years, the rural people like to plan a wishful, so obtaining the support of parents, the seven of us will be July 14 in the lunar calendar (Tanabata Festival) composed of the word row. Crowded that year to form the gate (temple) is particularly high.
May be too young, and at the gate (temple) will be reflected on this day - and can not take care of themselves. Therefore, some mothers had taken the initiative to come and help. Gradually we grew up down the years, only fewer and fewer mothers help.
Finished each gate (temple) in the evening, will go snacks movie - the film is released to the village to see the main temple, and will continuously play a few days.
When days are always so blue, the water always so clear. Regardless of wind and waves, and we seem to have become brothers and sisters stick together like a play.
Agreement for a very long time, one to go home from school at noon meal had to immediately go to school to play, seven people were divided into two groups to play Taekwondo training, to see which group of taekwondo more powerful. Wow! Have their own style all their own, playing cut-throat, the cry was really crisp!
Persist for a very long time, whenever the early 15’s after dinner, and go and burn incense to the gods before tomorrow, and then on the way home to eat noodles together.
Every Sunday, they will climb over two hills to the Shan Temple worship, and sometimes walk together to the Fragrant Hills. In an Village because we like to eat, say, where meals incense, superstitious mothers-ming said that God only made a sauce before so delicious, when we all believed, so every time to go before the Our mothers will explain a little rice and vegetables. Hushan Um remote, buy some things that are not convenient for people to rely mostly on weekdays, when the gods Shun Piandai points to go.
There are lots and lots of interesting Shier, to play with, along with training, along with fishing, swimming together ... ...
Together with seven games played list goes on, when Luo Wei only know how to fun, know how happy, almost all else behind, too simple. A summer holiday down all too short, and my brain is only the use of hand-foot-harvest Taekwondo is a technology, focuses on technology to conduct full combat Bo hit the sport. The so-called taekwondo, Tae (TAE), the meaning is kicking, throwing clash; Boxing (KWON) is a fist fight against; Road (DO) is a kind of art. Include product potential (Taolu), Bo hit (real athletic and fighting), skill testing of three parts, but also capture, fighting, self-defense, basic skills and other skills. Tae Kwon Do practice activities in the body need muscles and joints. Therefore, it is a comprehensive exercise. Let us feel the time is too fast, the summer is very short. Sometimes happy fits of overzealous to a meal time, they hate life down Why should we eat.
People often say: "Happy time always flies fast." Us a little time, however, do not think that because of time every day life is very full, if anyone sometimes feel bored or empty, as long as to find a few other partners quickly excited.
Time is always so ruthless, and whether you feel that it is fast or slow, the good times will always be the last.
Gradually we grew up, some moved to a new home, lengthen the sense of distance, we also began to make new friends, broaden our horizons. The impression of self after the first one on the junior high school we would have no play together, and over time seem to have become regular friends.
Later, some proceed to secondary school, university, graduate students and other books, and some dropped out of school halfway through junior high school or junior high school on participation in social work, and we rarely see the surface and no contact, it has deepened alienation.
To the last few years, vaguely felt in the temple that day, everyone is to find ways to narrow their mind, but no matter who the next what kind of effort can not make up. If you mention Luo Wei’s absence, the head of each heart will always be the breeding of heart, the phrase also want to break, and sometimes can only shake their heads sigh.
This year is the Year of the Ox, I do not know who to listen to hearsay, said Luo Wei will come to participate in temple. 1 heard, everyone cheeky joy of shape, but is skeptical, because none of linkage of the Luo Wei. Nina Luo DS and the boss said at the beginning of several would go in Shenzhen, temple that day will not necessarily come. It seems to have this year, even if the Luo Wei was absent, and always give the impression that little regret.
To the temple this day, several of us in the door, who Laoqi Russell, Russell had the accident occurred. Some said Luo Wei has been at his relative’s house, but he still married with his wife to come back soon, and we’ve been waiting for a moment, with a total not seen silhouette, put this matter behind the write-in, first go seven to play, play a few re-plan go to the market to buy food.
Luo Wei, finally appeared, in our After buying food back there, and I come back later, that did not see his wife. Ten years, and can recognize each other should be his biggest changes and a lot of hair off his forehead just like people say, "extremely intelligent", bald, and looked a lot of hoary.
This time everybody overjoyed, though did not say out, according to photos from years see at a glance, each Chunfengmanmian, full of energy, has no lips together, the Zuoqishilai especially in high spirits, and even among those who rated the eight of us is "the king of lazy" and rather than contesting the Rockingham today are fighting over who gets Gan Huo.
In the dinner time, one after another, some people advise on the Luo Wei after the 12 must come back, he on this matter, there is no direct answer. Obviously, we certainly feel good inside.
Every year on this day, just like the crystallization of all that we once had a happy anniversary of the matter, regardless of whether or not a bit happier today, once the San Xi, in the face of life, everyone can be a different frame of mind to face life, also with "Occupational problems" posed by the small regret lurking in our lives.
Hours of friendship should be without color, very simple, very simple, and even now we are seven people are not used to as buddies. I miss the past, this day will be like a bull kept trained on permanent reclaim the taste of ruminants, it will become the treasure of our lives, like, forever treasure in the heart of the deepest.
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